I have made no secret in this blog about my sexuality. For the newcomers, I identify as pansexual. I don’t have barriers regarding sexuality or gender when falling in love.
In the big context, I am who I am and I just am. I love the person regardless, even if that means someone who will never be attracted to me but, hey! That’s another story…
Some have questioned my identity because I have mostly dated men and I was married to one for over 15 years (technically, I still am, but we’ll let it slide…)
The thing is, when I fall for a woman, I fall hard.
I had one of these moments at Anime Con with Raven. I saw this girl, probably too young for me anyway, and I was smitten.
She wasn’t alone. She was there with a girlfriend. Still, I couldn’t take my eyes off her.
When she walked away, I turned to Raven, “Fuck, she’s hot!”
“Which one?” she asked.
“Dayimmm! Hell yes, she’s hot!”
That’s how we roll. Maybe it’s genetic but that’s definitely how I roll.
One of my ‘slaves’ kind of flirted with me but I was already gone. No one else was good enough then.
We’ll see how this pans out in the future.