I have made no secret in this blog about my sexuality. For the newcomers, I identify as pansexual. I don’t have barriers regarding sexuality or gender when falling in love.
In the big context, I am who I am and I just am. I love the person regardless, even if that means someone who will never be attracted to me but, hey! That’s another story…
Some have questioned my identity because I have mostly dated men and I was married to one for over 15 years (technically, I still am, but we’ll let it slide…)
The thing is, when I fall for a woman, I fall hard.
I had one of these moments at Anime Con with Raven. I saw this girl, probably too young for me anyway, and I was smitten.
She wasn’t alone. She was there with a girlfriend. Still, I couldn’t take my eyes off her.
When she walked away, I turned to Raven, “Fuck, she’s hot!”
“Which one?” she asked.
“Short hair.”
“Dayimmm! Hell yes, she’s hot!”
That’s how we roll. Maybe it’s genetic but that’s definitely how I roll.
One of my ‘slaves’ kind of flirted with me but I was already gone. No one else was good enough then.
We’ll see how this pans out in the future.
I think people are just people, and you like or love who you love. It’s part of what makes us unique. I love individuals, not ‘only men/women/etc.’
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For me, there’s that special something about the person that makes body parts completely irrelevant. I feel what I feel. 💖
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How lovely to be able to be so open and free together! You’ve raised her right 😊🌈
PS: I usually like the ones with short hair too (is that objectifying?? Oops sorry. Not sorry 😘)
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I totally agree, the openness and freedom is fantastic! Raven is in great company. We need more people like you two in the world. 😉
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🌈🙏🏼❤🌈
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Thanks, Grey! We try our best for our children and I’m very proud of her. 💖
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I always hoped I could have an open relationship with my mom while growing up. Even though we are there now, it’s a very recent thing. I didn’t want to make my daughter wait 40 years for that and I constantly try to be the parent I wish I had.
I know you get me and, yes, I am a fan of short hair. 😏😉😘
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🙏🏼❤🌈❤ x
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