Online Dating


This has become my fun lately. I went through a few sites and Apps, not hoping to find anyone, to be honest.

I have taken to creating profiles and checking the neighbourhood. What I find only reinforces my idea that these are full of people just looking for a quickie. 

Still, after a few glasses of wine, I found this one, the worst yet. 

The advanced search actually gives you the options below:

I laughed out sooooo loud!

My ‘matches’ are hell scary. More laughter. 

These are actual screenshots:

I only covered the bits that could give away my exact location. 

Sad, isn’t it? Yes, but after all this, I remain positive. I refuse to go back to the negative state of mind I was in a few months ago, when Raven snapped me out of it.

The right person is out there. If I remain positive and happy, I will find them.


10 Comments Add yours

    1. DFMGhost says:

      It is wow in the worst sense. Lucky this is not where I put my hopes. You should have heard my laughter last night. Does it work for these people? I wonder.


      1. I would like to think it wouldn’t work, but given what I hear and read on blogs and things, there are a lot of women who are open to or actively seeking hookups. Makes me feel like I can’t compete. Glad you are able to get a chuckle about it. I guess it is either laugh or cry.

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      2. DFMGhost says:

        Exactly! I choose to laugh. It’s not what I want. It’s not what I need. I’d rather be alone than resort to this. The right person is out there. I just have to find them.

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  1. Mandi Em says:

    Omg I can’t even πŸ˜‚ it takes all types. Love that you are seeing the humor in it 😁

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    1. DFMGhost says:

      It’s awful, isn’t it? Since I made the decision to be positive, I have been sticking to it. At least in this site they are very clear about their intentions, not like one that a friend uses. They start all nice and chatty and very quickly change to ‘wanna have sex?’
      I laughed so hard last night. I see the humour and I’m glad I do. It’s a source of entertainment. My poor daughter was shocked. “Do these people really live in our town,” she asked. Yep.


  2. Wow….mmmh…the right person is out there for you.

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    1. DFMGhost says:

      I know and I will find them. I’m sure it’s not going to be via online dating.
      Online, could be, like I have met wonderful friends. The intention is completely different and it if grows into something else, fantastic.

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      1. I agree and I know when the time is right you will.

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