Barely husband voiced it loud and clear that he still hopes we will get back together. I had to tell him I don’t think we could ever make it work. We want completely different things.
He cried three times while we were talking. Because we were having a good time, the three of us, he thinks this means hope for us two, not that we are mature enough to spend time together for our daughter.
He doesn’t see the difference between me liking him and me loving and desiring him. I certainly don’t have any romantic feelings towards him left.
He is a good person but we are not good together. We’re only getting on now because we are living separate lives, doing whatever we want. I know the fights would return immediately if we were ever to try again as one of us would have to compromise on something that makes us happy.