We start relationship counselling on Friday.
I remember when I first suggested it, months ago, before things were so bad, he refused, saying it was waste of time and money.
I agree it’s not cheap but now that he’s desperate, he’s willing to go and even found the therapist by himself.
I don’t think our relationship can be saved but I am following the advice of a couple of friends, one of which went through counselling but her marriage could not be saved. She said at least it helped them end it on good terms.
I go in with an open mind and I have absolutely no idea what to expect. I hope we come out of it in a better mindset than we go in.