3 DAY, 3 QUOTE CHALLENGE – DAY 3

This is the final instalment of my 3 DAY, 3 QUOTE CHALLENGE, set by my friend Tarnished Soul https://tarnishedsoul.wordpress.com/

It wouldn’t be complete without LOVE & FRIENDSHIP. If you have been reading my blog, you already know of my struggles with my failed marriage. Actually,  you just have to read the blog name to realise there’s something wrong but I digress.

Note that I use the word ‘failed’, not failing. I don’t see a way back from the lack of ACCEPTANCE, the annoyance at my WRITING and, even though there is still LOVE, the clear lack of FRIENDSHIP. Writing this sentence it’s clear to me that the things that define me, my choices for the quote themes, are the problem; they are a ‘problem’ I refuse to fix.

Others who have undertaken this challenge were right: it takes you on a journey so, thank you, Tar, for nominating me. I hope you are enjoying being home and having a break. ❤️

Enough blabbering and on to the quotes:

This is about the biggest love of all. The love that has no requirements. I have a very hard time opening up to people I know so how can I really call them friends if they don’t KNOW ME.

I once had a friend who knew me better than I knew myself. He broke through all my walls and I didn’t even see it happen. With one single look he knew exactly what I was feeling. Sadly, I lost him to a birth defect in his heart that went undetected until it was too late. I don’t think I ever cried so much in my life.

I would love to have a friend like that again, to drop my mask. I am taking baby steps towards it and I hope I will get there sooner rather than later.

And I go: ‘For fucks sake! Isn’t this exactly what I’ve been saying is the problem with my marriage?’ Bloody Nietzche already knew it! Why don’t we learn this in school? Wishful thinking…

Yes, I feel it and it’s related to the first one. If my barely husband can’t accept who I really am and wants the Stepford Wives version of me, then he is not my friend. And without friendship… I’m going around in circles!!!

My last quote is not exactly a quote. It’s not eloquent and it’s not poetically written but it’s the most powerful message of all. Love has no rules: who you fall in love with, why, how… it’s all a mystery!

And then society tries to put so many barriers: you can’t love someone of the same gender! You can’t love someone who follows a different religion! Interracial relationships are wrong!

I say FUCK OFF! With all the letters and all my mighty. SHUT THE FUCK UP!

Now that I let it all out, I can happily finish my challenge with the last nominations. Again I remind you it’s OK if you don’t want to do it, but I say the results are quite astonishing for the ones who actually do!

Georgia’s Favourite Things @ Georgia’s Favourite Things

liverpoolmunky76 @ A Munky on Merseyside

Henry @ Love, Hate, Love

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5 Comments Add yours

  1. Brilliant and I love it. You already know I agree and today I want yo thank you for lowering that wall a little but and allowing me to get to know you a little. Xoxoxo ❤️ should I tell you again that I wishes we lived closer? Maybe when I move back to Germany 😉

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  2. MLYGhost says:

    Yes, I definitely wish you lived closer ❤️
    Do you have plans to move back? I am here and I have no intention of moving anywhere but I would love to visit one day so you can take me on your trails.

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  3. so real and straight forward and most of all so true! Love has NO rules! even Love Himself has no rules

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    1. MLYGhost says:

      Absolutely no rules! Love is love, simple in its purest form. ❤️

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